Hi! I totally agree with you about the motherhood thing. I love kids, but don't think I could be a mom, especially to deal with the things my sister has to juggle. thankfully she doesn't also have to work outside the home, but motherhood is a job with more overtime than any other!

the memorial was absolutely perfect - such a great memory for my family. and a great way to say goodbye to my father. I'm sure that he was with us that day.

I've had many great days with my mom - it's just what I wanted and needed. this time with her will fill my soul when I"m back in Japan.

and yes, Nicky the cat has been a great addition to her life. He's a good companion and very fun to have around. My mom's doing pretty good these days - as well as can be expected since she's managing lots of things alone. I wish I could be here for her all the time.

as for my husband - he was thinking of coming here this month, but I think I got him to realize that we should work on Japan for awhile longer. we can always come back here in the future. I hope he can find something to do though at least until I can finish my contract next year!

thank you for your wonderful comment, Sue! I miss you and hope you are doing good!

*hugs tight*