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posted by [personal profile] laurainlimbo at 05:40am on 18/12/2009
First of all, I have to say Thank You to [personal profile] blueleopard87 for the Christmas card and the lovely note! I got it in the mail yesterday:) I'm putting all my holiday cards next to my little Christmas tree in my teaching room, and they make me so happy! I'll try to post a picture soon:) I haven't taken any pictures since I got here, except for a couple pics of Mt. Fuji that I took today - it's so gorgeous with the snow on top. I'll post those pictures in the next couple days or so too... I finally started writing postcards yesterday, and will probably finish them up on Sunday and get them in the mail Monday - that's my plan anyway:) But I'm seriously lacking motivation, which is not so good.

and here's some news: we had two mini earthquakes this morning, which was quite interesting! The first was very small, and I hardly felt it. It was based in Tokyo and was just about 4 points. The second though, which happened about 20 minutes later, was much bigger, over 5 points, and was based much closer to us, in the Izu Peninsula. I wonder how many more earthquakes we will get while I'm here. We're in big earthquake territory, and also very close to an active volcano - scary!

Anyway, I've been meaning to post more fun observations and things about Japan, and do more frequent updates, but honestly things have been a bit disappointing, and nothing much has been happening around here (except for the earthquakes - LOL!). I guess that's why I'm not very motivated. It's cold, we still don't have any students for the school (of course we haven't really advertised yet, except for putting up the sign in front of the house - and it's only been about five days), and my husband can't find any jobs that he can apply to. He's getting really frustrated not having a job, and of course it's hard with neither of us making any money. But I won't give up yet - I vow to give it at least 6-8 months and see if we can get a website going, and some advertisement, and maybe if I can get 10 students, I'll be able to make enough money to stay here. But just in case the school doesn't work out, I've decided to apply for some teaching jobs I saw posted online - I have to keep my options open, and if we end up getting any interest in our school here at home, then I can of course always quit any job I get. I am starting to think that it actually might be better in this first year to just get a job outside the house - then I can save some money and be in a better position to get the school going later. But we'll just have to take things a day at a time.

I just really want to get some routine going - for both of us. So far, (and I've only been here a week and a half), most of my days have been the same: get up around 8, have some toast and coffee, feed the cat, put away the futon and straighten up the room, do some stuff on the internet, maybe get out for some shopping, and maybe do something practical like study Japanese. Lunch and dinner have been good - Masahiko's mom mostly does the cooking, and we've had good stuff like Sukiyaki, curry with pork, tempura, udon, etc. At night we've been going to bed early mostly because there's not much to do - and because it's cold! Tuesday I did get out again though - I met my friends (both named Naomi) on for some lunch and coffee at a big new mall in Fuji city. It was great seeing them - they're both friends from 10 years ago when I was teaching and living on my own. One of them was my neighbor, and the other has a pet grooming shop and actually came out to our wedding in Washington state in 2001. Anyway, Tuesday was fun - we spent more than an hour looking at photos of my former neighbor Naomi's daughter Megumi, who is now 3 years old. I was there at the hospital right after Megumi was born in 2006, and I have yet to meet her again, but I will in January.

I hope that once things start to get more settled (that is, once we both get jobs and have schedules), that I can start posting more fun things, like my thoughts on Japanese culture and funny pictures and examples of Japanese-English. That's what I did before, back in 2005 when I was living here. For now, though, I may just be popping in with updates, and hopefully a few pictures:)

hope everyone is staying warm wherever you are. I hear reports of snow in so many places - we might get a few flurries this weekend here too! So bundle up, stay healthy, and enjoy the preparations for the holidays - that is, if you celebrate Christmas. My Christmas will be pretty uneventful, but maybe we'll get some Christmas cakes and watch movies or something.

happy weekend!
Mood:: 'restless' restless
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posted by [identity profile] toadflax234.livejournal.com at 01:45pm on 18/12/2009
I'm looking forward to seeing those pictures.

Earthquakes? Erk! I could do without those!

It's still very early days, as you say. I think it's best to keep your options as wide as you can. Apply for jobs if you fancy them.

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 09:36am on 21/12/2009
posting some pics either tonight or tomorrow:) not much yet, but something so you can see where I am.

yes, there were two earthquakes that morning, and a couple more later the next day. all in the Izu Peninsula, which is a couple hours from here.

I guess it's still early - I'm just impatient:)

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] zeecha.livejournal.com at 02:59pm on 18/12/2009
I would imagine you'll be feeling earthquakes more than you'd like! Kinda like living in southern California! Although I've felt two earthquakes in the midwest--one in 1989 (?) in Iowa, and the other last year (?) here in champaign. I've also felt one before while visiting my friends George & Sue in San Diego. They are freaky!

Well...I could certainly think of worse things to do than getting into bed with my man on a cold winter's night! haha!! Of course, having the inlaws in the next room, or down the hall might put a damper on things... never mind me--I am high strung! ;)

And I have to say--I enjoyed this post thoroughly! Once you get more settled, your picture-posts will be awesome I'm sure! Enjoy your bit of down time!
*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 09:41am on 21/12/2009
there's going to be lots of earthquakes - I just hope nothing too big! I remember the earthquake last year - we felt it in Chicago - it was so weird!

well yes we do manage to keep each other warm on these cold nights, and the cat sleeps with us too - LOL! it is sometimes hard having the in-laws just downstairs, but since we've been married so long, there's not too much serious hanky panky going on all the time. we manage when we're in the mood though - LOL!

thanks for enjoying my post. I hope I'm not totally boring people lately - it seems lots of people aren't around though. maybe after the holidays I'll start posting more stuff, and hopefully more people will be around to read. I'm posting some pics soon though!!

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] zeecha.livejournal.com at 03:31pm on 21/12/2009
glad you are smiling!

you're posts aren't boring at all! don't worry about that, silly. posts & pictures are always appreciated by those of us that are around all the damn time! so have at it! :)

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 10:54am on 23/12/2009
aw thanks! I'll try to post pics as much as I can - when I find interesting things:)

*hugs*
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posted by [personal profile] wolfpurplemoon at 09:46pm on 18/12/2009
Good luck getting some work sorted out, I'm looking forward to some insights into Japanese culture!

We had our white christmas today, complete and utter chaos after 6 inches of snow fell over night. I drove to work fine, everyone going slowly and carefully, but then found that the car park at work was closed as they hadn't put any grit down so there were health and safety concerns! Had to dump my car in a road opposite, which also hadn't been cleared, go figure!

But I'm staying warm at home now, and no plans to go too far over the weekend!

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 09:42am on 21/12/2009
I'm thinking about what aspects of Japanese life to post about first. anything you're curious about?

I hope you managed to get your car back home safely - is your snow yet cleared? Have a happy and safe Christmas:)

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] nekosensei.livejournal.com at 03:00am on 19/12/2009
Just popping in to say that I'm looking forward to your posts on Japanese language and culture. Glad to hear that things are going well. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you find students or a teaching job soon.
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 09:43am on 21/12/2009
Hi - thanks for popping in. I do hope that once I get out more, I'll find good things to post on here. of course there's plenty of observations just in living in a Japanese house and small town. It's just been so cold and we haven't gone out much. but soon things will get more exciting I hope!

 
posted by [identity profile] winterdahlia.livejournal.com at 05:16pm on 19/12/2009
We've a had a couple of those mini-earthquakes around here over the past few years, although I don't think ours were more than 3 point something. The 5 point one sounds scary! Even the very little ones are jarring. Both times we've had those I was woken up in the middle of the night, wondering what the hell was going on! Anyway, I'm glad the ones you had there didn't do hurt anyone.

Re: Job search. I hope all goes well for you guys and you find good jobs soon. That's cool that you are going to try doing a website! I actually just ordered a bunch of books from the library on designing your own website, because I want to make one for our small business. I'm excited about doing that. It should be fun, and hopefully it will help the business, too. Good luck with yours! :-)

Re: Christmas Day. I think eating cakes and watching movies on sounds pretty great! I hope you all have a wonderful time. ♥
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 09:45am on 21/12/2009
wow it's amazing that earthquakes even happen in your part of the country. the ones we felt were mostly small and far enough away to not really matter. I felt a really strong one in Tokyo once, and of course also felt a couple in Northern California.

I do want to get our own school going, and if we can get a website, it might help. it will take some time, of course. what kind of small business do you have (did you tell me once?)... thanks for wishing us luck - you too!!

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas day - enjoy your peace and quiet and beautiful snow.

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] blueleopard87.livejournal.com at 06:37pm on 19/12/2009
I'm glad that you got my card! :D I wasn't sure if it would make it in time for Christmas~ And speaking of snow, it just started snowing here, too!
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 09:34am on 21/12/2009
I'm glad I got your card too - I've got four nice holiday cards, all from LJ friends:) oh you have snow? enjoy it! we don't have any, but it's still quite cold.

have a happy holiday!
*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] dawnie1970.livejournal.com at 08:25pm on 19/12/2009
Earthquake, sounds scary! We are in the midst of a blizzard warning, expecting 20 inches of snow by morning, yikes! *hugs* Miss you so much!
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 09:33am on 21/12/2009
I'm so sorry to hear about your blizzards and storms out there. I hope you are staying warm and dry and healthy. I hope your Christmas will still be wonderful despite the snow. I'll be thinking of you!!

I miss you and love you lots.

*snuggles*
 
posted by [identity profile] dawnie1970.livejournal.com at 12:28pm on 21/12/2009
I miss you so much honey-bunny! Any updates on the school, sweetheart?
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 01:09pm on 22/12/2009
not much happening with the school - could be the time of year, and just that it's a bad time for getting students. we'll keep trying, but in the meantime I'm looking for other work outside the house. it takes time.

thanks for asking!

love you lots!
*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] jojobruin.livejournal.com at 09:44am on 25/12/2009
Lots of thoughts there! I think you are off to a good start! I'm glad you were able to reconnect with old friends. That must've been nice!

How's your Japanese coming along? *hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 01:04pm on 25/12/2009
It has been nice to see my old friends - I'm also hoping to meet some former students, but they're so busy with their jobs.

haha I haven't been studying Japanese nearly enough, but just being here and having to speak Japanese with my in-laws is good practice. I just need to get over my fear of making mistakes - LOL!

*hugs*
 
posted by [identity profile] jojobruin.livejournal.com at 07:09am on 27/12/2009
Heheh, that's how we all learn to speak... by speaking it! I'm sure you're doing great! Don't be afraid. The more you speak, the faster you'll get better. This reminded me of when I first came to the US and tried to learn English. I probably spoke like a mad man and didn't make much sense!! By comparison, I'm sure you're doing much better! ^_^ Ganbatte ne!
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 11:54pm on 27/12/2009
my husband gives me a hard time for not trying to speak - because i know that by making mistakes and doing it, I will learn. I just need to be less lazy and afraid. and as a teacher of ESL, I should understand that.

I forgot - how old were you when you came to the U.S.? I think when we're younger it's easier to try new things and learn languages especially. but I will try - I promise:)

thanks!
 
posted by [identity profile] jojobruin.livejournal.com at 12:33am on 30/12/2009
Heheh, I agree completely! I was 17, Laura. Not speaking a word of English and understanding only the most basic written English. You can do it! One day, you could teach Japanese in America when it comes to that, you know? ^_^
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 10:29am on 31/12/2009
oh I'm not sure about teaching Japanese, because I'd have to really learn Kanji, which is so hard! and who knows, I might stay in Japan:) in which case I will need to really learn to read and write it. But now, I'm at such a basic level of Japanese the concept of teaching it is scary! I'll stick to teaching English, which is what I'm good at:)

thanks for the vote of confidence though - i wish I had so much confidence in myself.
 
posted by [identity profile] jojobruin.livejournal.com at 06:38pm on 31/12/2009
It'll take time. But I'm sure with practice, Japanese will come to you more naturally. You'll be great. Believe in yourself.
 
posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 12:45am on 02/01/2010
I will try! thanks!

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