it's not life that matters but the journey...

I teach because I can't have my own-unless you count Sadie-lol. But even if I could? I'm not sure I would be a good mother. I am selfish you see. I am still enjoying life and doing whagt I want-when I want. So if I could I'd still pass. It wouldn't be fair to any children I might have. But teaching let me enjoy them-and then send them on home-lol. So you're not alone there! motherhood is a job with more overtime than any other! I totally agree 150%!!!
It was exactly right-just the way it should have been for you and your family. *Nods* You had a special and fitting tribute to your dad's life. And hopefully the closure you needed as well!
It's the small things you miss the most isn't it? And you have more new memories of hanging with your mom/and your family now to hopefully help you when you're back in Japan again.
Having Nicky with her is wonderful! I know he's there at this time for a reason. He sounds like a sweet cat-very loving. I'm glad she has him around! I know it's been hard for her to adjust after losing your dad. I hope she's doing well? I think of you-and your mom alot when my dad has really bad days. It will get easier for you both-and know that I'm here should you need to talk!
I hope that he will give Japan a little more time. It's never easy to come back-and start over again. It takes time. And he would have to do the same thing back here-start over again. And it would take time-so why not Japan for another year? And you're right-you want to finish your contract out there too. *Crosses fingers he finds something* I miss you too! I try to hit my gmail account at least once a week-and answer! But also-I do love reading your posts-and answer when I can. We've been friends too long to not stay in touch! I don't want that to ever happen!
*Hugs you*