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posted by [identity profile] dawnie1970.livejournal.com at 07:13pm on 07/03/2007
I wish I had good advice, but all I can really say is that you have to think of yourself first, protect yourself and your needs. What he wants doesn't make him a bad person at all, or that he doesn't deserve to be happy, everyone is happy in their own way, but it has to mesh with someone you share your life with. I would think he would reconsider knowing it is causing you pain, obviously loving someone means you don't want them to suffer. And obviously I'm not saying do it, because it is deceitful, but what if you just got pregnant, he'd have to accept it, right? Sometimes things don't always go as planned. *heavy sigh* I hate that you are unhappy, you are truly a good person and you don't deserve to be on any level. *big hugs*
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posted by [identity profile] laurainlimbo.livejournal.com at 12:38am on 12/03/2007
thanks for your great reply. you're right about everything - I do have to think about myself, and that is why I'm planning to do this paralegal thing and at least protect my financial future. and what you said about just getting pregnant, believe me I've thought about it many times. but unfortunately it's not that easy. he really safeguards against my getting pregnant and sadly we don't have a hot sex life like we did when we first got married. I think if it's meant to happen, it will. and if I can't stand it not having a baby, then I will find a way to have one. even if I have to adopt one:)

thanks for being a great friend and always listening:)

*big hugs* back!
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posted by [identity profile] dawnie1970.livejournal.com at 08:53pm on 13/03/2007
*hugs and kisses* ♥
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